One of the superpowers God gave me is writing. I love writing and have brought this ability into my relationships with others. I've tried it repeatedly, and it has worked, although not on everyone.
Bringing this into a relationship, I’ve come to understand that some partners, especially ladies, are more receptive to words, particularly when emotional attachment is involved. Research supports this—according to a 2019 study by Chapman and White, words of affirmation rank among the top love languages, with 23% of people preferring verbal expressions of love. Additionally, a 2021 survey by Psychology Today found that 78% of women feel more emotionally connected when their partner expresses appreciation through words. Please understand that not all ladies are equally attached to love writings, but most ladies' hearts melt with heartfelt messages.
This technique, though often used in secular contexts, can also be a valuable tool for Christians seeking to strengthen their relationships.
In this article, I’ll share some insights, but please note that it’s primarily for those in relationships. The goal is to strengthen our relationships, as every lady wants to feel appreciated, loved, and valued. One way ladies feel loved is through genuine words and true communication. In fact, a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that expressing love through text messages or written notes enhances relationship satisfaction by 68% among couples.
Here are some heart-melting messages you can send to her:
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As I’m off to sleep, I’m reminded why the rainbow is part of the signs of God’s mercy, sparing the world from destruction. Do you know why?
It’s because your cute beauty, amazing & heart-melting smile, and pure baby laughter are as colorful as the rainbow itself, bringing joy to heaven and earth alike.
You are a reflection of God’s goodness on earth, and your selfless deeds cannot be forgotten. You truly make the world a better place within your sphere of influence. You’re always cherished.
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I’m not trying to say that I’m a good shepherd, but I’ve left 99 to come and find you.
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I wish this was the time of Noah; I really would love to walk into the ark with you as a pair.
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Your hair is as beautiful as a flock of lambs descending from the Mount of Olives.
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Whenever my dad or mom asks me how my day went, I’ll always smile. Do you know why? I’m reminded of you! You’re such a great deal that my day feels incomplete without dialoguing with you.
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If David had met you, he would understand what it means to have you in his life. Babe, “you’re more than enough.”
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Tell her to clean something off her face, either the left side or right. While she’s trying to do that, tell her, while smiling, “I’ve forgotten you can’t clean off your beauty.”
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Choosing you is the best decision I’ve ever made in my life, and I cherish you.
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The more you smile, the more my heart feels like that of a child. I’m just so in love with the real you, a woman of virtue whose life is an inspiration.
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You’re the missing piece I never knew I needed. Now that I have you, my life feels complete. My dearest.
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Just as we are never complete without the Holy Spirit, every moment with you is a gift. You make my life richer just by being in it.
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I love how you make me laugh, how you always know how to make me feel better, and how you support me in everything I do. In you, I’ve found a helpmeet.
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I cherish our late-night conversations, our silly jokes, and our deep, meaningful talks. You’re my best friend and soulmate. Your presence in my life is forever cherished, and I’m grateful to do the forever ride with you.
While I go about doing the Master's work of winning souls, your soul isn't an exception, baby girl.
Now I finally get why I've been single all this time, it's because God was saving the best for me, and that best is you! With you by my side, we’ll chase 10,000 for the Kingdom and make every moment count!
Genuinely expressing your love through heart-melting messages can be a powerful way to strengthen your relationship. Remember, it’s the thought and effort that counts, not the words themselves.
As you continue to nurture your relationship, never forget to keep God in the picture, and never do anything that God would not be proud of. Your partner might not always be moved, and that’s okay. It’s not something you should worry about. Whether through writing, speech, actions, or gifts, make sure your partner feels valued, loved, and cherished.
For more tips like this and guidance on building strong, Christ-centered relationships, I’m excited to announce that I’ll soon be releasing a book called The Brothers' Chronicle. This book will feature more heart-melting messages, along with practical advice and insights for Christian brothers.
Thank you for reading, and I pray that these messages have inspired you to deepen your connection with your loved one.
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